Three year transformation! Puberty definitly hit me! But there are a lot of factors playing a role in the change I made over the year.
I eat more an a LOT healthier
I train 4 times a week (at least)
I gained fat and muscle
I dress differently
I wear make up
I wear my hair opened (most of the time)
All things that changed the way I look tremendously! And also the way people look at and treat me.
I came from a person no one ever notice, or even made fun of, to a person everyone will notice. I don't want to say that I'm just crazy hot (because I'm not), I just want to say that a slight difference in the way you look can change SO much!
So yes! I did change! And yes people are superficial!
HOWEVER the even bigger and way more important change I made is my personality:
I am happier
I found myself
I am more confident
I know what I want
I work hart
I am very grateful
I love my life
All these things, impacted my life enormously! I finally became the person I always wanted to be! I quit looking at people and being jealous about their life, their personality and of course their look! I only look at myself. I look at myself (inside and outside) and am happy about EVERYTHING i see. Without ever stop trying to improve.
I come from a depressed, shy, sad, angry dumb, skinny (from others seen as) unattractive kid, to a (from other seen as) more attractive and less skinny, but with the same personality trades, and still unhappy girl, to finally a ( from others seen as) happy, confident, self-loving person!
So why am I telling you all this?
Because even if everything about the way I look changed exactly the way it did, without my personality changing (which it wouldn't have) - I would still be super unhappy, shy, uncertain even depressed!! And that is the actual factor which changed the way people look at and treat me! Its my charisma my confidence! Self-love is the biggest game changer!
There is nothing wrong with wanting to improve your body, wearing make-up and trying to make yourself look more beatiful and attractive.
But it is sooo important to keep in mind that all that will change nothing (or at least very little because people are superficial) if you don't have the right mindset about yourself.
Know that your life is in your own hand and that it is all about you to change that! Know that you can change who you are, and that even if it takes a lot of strength and hard work, it will be worth it!!
Be the person YOU want to be!
So this is not about a girl changing her body or her hair. This is about a girl changing who she is!
THIS IS WHERE I WANT TO THANK ALL THESE PEOPLE FROM ASSTHETIK ESPECIALLY MALOU, LEAALEXA BUT ALSO ADINASELIN! YES, I DID CHANGE ALL MB MYSELF, BUT THEY WHERE THE PEOPLE THAT GAVE ME THE FIRST PUSH, AND INSPIRED ME TO BECOME A DIFFERENT PERSON!
I AM SO GRATEFUL FOR ACCIDENTLY FINDING LEAALEXAS PAGE ON ASK! WITHOUT YOU I WOULDN'T BE THE PERSON I AM TODAY! FOR SURE!
(hopefully all that wasn't to complicated)